A lot of women complain about the lack of good men out there these days. Some even say that all the good men are married or taken. And if you’ve had a lot of bad experiences, it’s easy to have this mindset.

There is actually a lot of opportunity to meet great men and I’m going to show you how.

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The first part of attracting a good man has everything to do with your belief. Have you ever noticed that people who feel that there are plenty of jobs, always seem to find one? While the ones that talk about the economy and how no one is hiring tend to always be unemployed?

Much like a job search, your thoughts have a lot to do with whether you will snag a good man.

Believe there are good men.

So you will need to actually believe that there is a good man and that you will be able to create a healthy relationship with him. When you have this belief, your actions will start to follow these beliefs.

If you believe there are good men, you are more likely to smile rather than to pout at men that you meet or even pass on the street. This gives you that positive energy that men love, and you are more likely to get approached.

Men sense when women are angry with men, and it’s a huge turnoff.

Make a list.

This doesn’t have to be a long list but make a list of what you want in a man and in a relationship. If you don’t know what you want, it will be difficult to attract it.

First make a list with everything on it, down to the way you like the man to dress, then you want to separate your list into must haves and nice to haves.

Turn your must haves into positive affirmations that you can repeat daily. For example, I want a man who is intelligent, turns into, “I am in a relationship with a man who is intelligent.”

Focus on your interests.

Next you will want to focus on what you like to do and your interests. You want to focus on those things that make you happy. Do you like to play tennis? Do you like to go out to bars or clubs? Do you enjoy running?

Take these interests and find clubs or organizations you can join to meet other people who share those interests. Men love to see women when they are enjoying what they are doing.

Avoid joining organizations or clubs JUST because you want to meet men.

Hang out with your friends who are social

I’m not the most social person, but I have friends who are social butterflies.
Whenever I want to get out, I don’t try to connect with everyone I know, I just connect with my one friend who has many connections.

If you aren’t a social butterfly, hang out with other men or women who are, you are more likely to meet more people, including men.

Flirt with men

Flirting doesn’t have to be this formal act. The best flirting technique is to smile at a man, then look away, and give him another warm smile (this time holding your gaze for 3-5 seconds).

This gives a man the green light that it is ok to approach you.

A lot of men won’t approach women until they get that green light. Men want to be sure that you aren’t going to reject them if they approach you.